Cruella de Vil wrote:Hello All,
I think some have the wrong end of the stick here.(Pun not intended). I am not promoting non-masturbation, in fact the complete opposite.
I think masturbation should be a daily healthy thing. Just not with orgasm. Keep the juice! That is the key....it keeps you juicy, males and females alike.
Here is something quite nice...visual and sensual to the eyes, at least for the ladies...
Haha, oh my, Cruella! I see your point. But
... women tend to always be... juicy though, right? Our insides are always cleaning themselves out... that's a huge part of it. We, apparently, 'let loose' several times a day without even realizing it sometimes (and sometimes it's just an overall feely-goody feeling). Guys don't have this requirement to clean themselves out throughout the day (other than pre-ejaculate?) so I guess they are
on the 'short end of the stick'.
The question for the guys though is if they feel abundant, creative energy coursing through them regardless of where their physical juices may or may not be going. Some seem to have loads of energy and pick up where they left off, no biggie (maybe it's got something to do with lifestyle/diet and nothing to do with 'holding back').
They say that it all starts between the ears. If you think
that masturbation with orgasm
is somehow 'bad' for you... you will create that reality for yourself.
As for 'creative juices' flowing (and what I think
)... I've found for myself anyway, that nothing I do seems to impede my creative flow. The 'same' energy always seems to be there for the taking. There's always enough for everything
(if you get my meaning) and then some.
Of course, the only way you get things done is to avoid being distracted and focus on the task at hand (pun definitely NOT intended). .