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[Naga_Fireball]

Just curious what the rest of you think regarding a hypothetical situation in which a knowingly gay person marries a straight person without letting on --

Have any of you experienced this, what was it like, how did you find out, and were there many warning signs?

Also, was the lying and betrayal concurrent with other forms of abuse, ie financial control, threats re the kids and the debts, sadistic tendencies, etc things to make the marriage mutually unbearable when it should have been fine?

Thanks!



Articles on this subject:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artic ... heart.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

http://www.nbcnews.com/id/23168113/ns/h ... d-gay-man/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/mixe ... riages-724" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

[Naga_Fireball]

P.s. i realize this is such a touchy subject.
I read in a couple articles that some people never make the transition from straight to gay etc. Like autism, it is a spectrum for some people who don't have a biological choice.

Just be wary, midlife crisis can trigger hormonal changes in married people and sometimes they don't understand it themselves.

I think the fear of the unknown is a big factor for these people.

These borderline guys are freaking terrified of these older naggy women, i literally think some women produce more testosterone than their guys.

Sexual issues do tend to be dynamic.

Just remember the Bible, it says "Do not let the sun go down on your anger".

I.e. don't take twisted fucked up shit to bed if other people didn't request it.





Edit:
Only 50% of gay men who closet behind a hetero wife bother telling her without being forced to:

http://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/ ... y-husband/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Great page:

http://jenniferelizabethmasters.blogspo ... n.html?m=1" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;


http://www.lifeanytime.com/relationship ... ht-be-gay/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=3072451&page=1" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

https://www.google.com/amp/s/consumer.h ... 72206.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

[Naga_Fireball]

Last year I sat in a class that for two or three sessions, had a gay attendee who was an extremely nice person. He did Not like talking about Dad issues but found courage from the acceptance given to him by the women in our group, he came out to his dad that week.



I absolutely do not have anything against those types, the ones who are not elitist around other groups, or hateful toward women and children.


Unfortunately today I ran into a pair of apparent homosexual and "metro sexual" type guys here in Walla Walla. They were standing in the middle of the cereal aisle talking shit about a woman. As i passed by the comments shifted the reflect their distaste for any women, and one made a comment about something I won't mention here.

I turned and looked at both of them, then went on with my shopping, and as I turned my back one of them said "Does that make you feel threatened?" Plain as fucking day.


It's very hard to love narcissistic ones like that who are disgusted by women and only interested in each other's poopholes. When they make hateful comments in public, I don't get it. Why single out a 35 yo backpacking female on a rainy day in a shithole like Walla Walla just to wave their rainbow flag in my face then spit in it for nothing?


Anyone else here ever get attacked by the Wicked Tooth Fairy of the West?