Lady Fireball,
You inner being burns bright and we all do love you so much.
This you do not know because I have never expressed it ... so I will now. Cristian has loved you so deeply that he hurts when you hurt, of all the people from the daze of PA he was always quietly behind the scenes pointing out those who were hurting, asking me to reach out to them. That's how I met donk.

And with you he has more times than I can count asked me to look after you. We see something so beautiful and bright just dying to be released.
So yes, the victim is always reactive at what life throws at them rarely finds the space to look inside. We love you unconditionally, it is time you love yourself the same.
The disability that is shared is pain.
You, more than almost anyone I know has a natural intelligence that life has tried to squash out of you... don't let it.
Christine
Naga_Fireball wrote:Cristian,
I don't go by my first name on the forum, although I did share it. Please try to maintain the continuity of discretion practiced by the member you are calling out.
My disability has nothing to do with why I did not receive a PM request to change that signature and it certainly does not reflect a state of victimhood.
I don't know you well enough to be hashing it out with anyone other than the person who complained, publicly. I have no idea why you think it is your job to follow up on the actions of another administrator whether or not you cohabit.
I love Christine very much, which gives her considerable influence to harm, but as for you and I, we simply don't have the relationship or rapport, or a reason, to be talking about this.
Thanks and Christine is big enough to handle this and much more.
If you don't like my image don't read my shit. Imagine if I told both of you every time you were annoying or perceived as such. It would not be fun for you to post under those conditions and I'm not going to let you bully me.
Totally unrelated.
P.s. I did not watch Friends. Not even 1 show, sorry.